I was talking to an old friend of mine online the other night. It was pretty late and we’d both had a drink or two which was fun. We met years ago on a ski trip and she was a ball of fun and her husband is a great guy.
This chick, we’ll call her Dee since she probably doesn’t want her real name on this blog, definitely has a crazy streak to her and somehow we got onto the topic of threesomes and foursomes. Turns out Dee and her hubby have had a few foursomes. Nothing organised or swinger club style but just hots + a few drinks turning into four people naked in bed.
I told her about my threesomes and it was kinda fun talking to a girl about this stuff.
I mentioned that I’ve loved my threesomes and moresomes but I’ve had some girlfriends (sometimes female fuck buddies more than ‘girlfriends’) who were into the MFF (two guys and a girl) threesome which is perplexing for me.
Dee said that she loves it although only ever had one threesome with that combination.
Over the conversation I think the consensus was that finding the extra guy is the hard thing which I think is dead right.
The majority of my threesomes I’ve been the extra guy but once a girl I knew wanted a two guy threesome and we ended up parting ways before we could find an extra guy. I didn’t really want it to be any of my close/str8 friends and I’m not sure if any of them would have been up for it and she didn’t want it to be any of her close friends. I remember us looking online but nothing really popped out at as either. I didn’t want the guy to be there trying to steal the girl either. Although the threesome we wanted was about the girl, I thought that a bisexual guy would be better so that nobody seems allergic to dick.
I’d love to hear any comments from folks who have either been the extra guy or have been looking for an extra guy.
Looks like Dee and her husband might be in Colorado in February and I might be over there seeing Kip so maybe I can be the ‘extra guy’ again. I reckon Dee would go off like a firecracker.