Forced Bi

Last night I had dinner with some friend in the city, and it was lovely.  On the coast in Australia I usually feel over dressed but in London I feel under dressed.

My friends are a gay couple and both guys had long term girlfriends in their past and one of the guys was explaining how when his girlfriend found out he was curious she totally lost it and it was the end of their relationship.

It wasn’t that long ago and he couldn’t believe that it was so offensive to her.  He wasn’t cheating or talking about cheating.  This girl and her friends all claimed to be liberal and open minded and of course they were proud of when they kissed other girls but a guys bisexuality was too hard to handle.

I get that vibe as well from a lot of people, in theory they love the concept of bisexuality but in real life and real relationships it is too scary perhaps.

During this conversation I said that a girl who loved by bisexuality would be the perfect girl for me.  I’d love to play the ‘Forced Bi’ fantasy…….

Did speedos give me gay tendencies?

Here is a question for you guys…. are speedos a gateway to gay?

I personally thing yes.

My first gay experiences all involved speedos and I’m pretty sure if I didn’t have a speedo fetish I wouldn’t have been horny enough to take the one great leap… and put a penis in my mouth.  I’m not saying that everyone who loves speedos is gay or even bisexual, but it is speedos which turns me on to a guy.

Seriously, if I see a guy in dork shorts I won’t think much about it.  But if a guy is wearing speedos, I’m thinking sex.

Hottub in SpeedosSpeedo Hottub

My Selfies

The other day I was talking to a member and he correctly guessed that a photo I posted on here within the last 2 or 3 weeks was one of me.

For those of you who are new here, although I love sharing my speedo escapades, I am not out to most of my friends which means I am reasonably protective of my privacy.  Maybe at some point in the future I’ll come ‘out’ but until then I don’t think it is any ones business.

Over the years I’ve had some people give me a hard time for not being ‘out and proud’.

Although most of my friends and family wouldn’t care if I told them I’m bi, then I would have to explain my sexuality.  Anyone I ‘dated’, I’d have to explain that early in the relationship which could be a good thing, but I’d prefer to be able to choose if and when I told someone that stuff.

It is a shame I’m not 100% out though, I’m sure I could get laid a little more from the blog (although that still happens) and I’d love to film and photograph more of my sexual experiences.  I still do take some personal pics and occasionally I throw one online in the mix just as a personal joke.

So keep your eyes out guys……

Couples Sex SelfiesCouple having sex in speedos

Sexuality Scale

The Wikipedia definition of Bisexuality….

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the romantic and/or sexual attraction of individuals to others of both genders (socially) or sexes (biologically). Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women and may even shift between states of finding either gender or sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.However, some bisexuals are and remain fairly static in their level of attraction throughout their adult life.

In the mid-1940s, Alfred Kinsey devised the Kinsey scale in an attempt to measure sexual orientation and activity. The 7-point scale has a rating of 0 (“exclusively heterosexual”) to 6 (“exclusively homosexual”). Bisexuals cover most of the scale’s values (1–5), which range between “predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual” (1) to “predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual” (5). In the middle of the scale (3) is “equally heterosexual and homosexual”. Although Kinsey’s methodology has come under criticism, the scale is still widely used in describing the phenomenon of bisexuality.

Although observed in a variety of forms in human societies and in the animal kingdom throughout recorded history, the term bisexuality (like the terms hetero- and homosexuality) was only coined in the 19th century.

I think on that scale I’d be a 4 – how about yourself? I’m sure I’m going to bring up this post again.