Years ago I started the Speed Forum (www.SpeedoForum.org) and it has become a fun place to hang out and talk with other guys who share my speedo fetish.
Over time there have been some dick head members but it is easy enough to ban them and otherwise the place is pretty good and there are enough people visiting it that topics are kept up to date and pretty fresh. Fore example, the most users online at one time this month was 355 which is pretty cool.
There is a specific forum for people to talk and submit photos of chicks in lycra or girls who like guys in speedos and there have been some couples over the years who have posted in there.
If you haven’t been over there feel free to check it out. It is free and there are no pop-ups of crap that like which I personally hate. When you join (100% free) you just have to email me (DaveEvans@SpeedoFetish.com) your username so I can activate your account.