Well I should start at the beginning – we both fucked each others brains out as soon as he arrived, then we had a nice long shower together, and then I started cooking dinner.

It was nice to sit around the dinner table – it felt very grown up. The nicest thing though was waking up this morning with someone in my arms. Someone to help me with my morning wood of course and then a lazy pancake breakfast before Mike had to head back to Wanaka. I could get used to this….. Could I ever give up my ‘debaucherous’ lifestyle though and settle down? I’m not saying I want to settle down with Mike, although I could settle down with Will although that will never happen. I know a few gay guys who are a bit older than me who are over their ‘fuck anything that moves’ stage of their life but they have struggled to find someone to share their life with. I’m not sure I’m quite there yet but I could see that need growing in me in a few years time.

It was great, she was great, she is cute but she also has a boyfriend (which I knew before hand).

I’m not sure if this bothers me or not – I suppose it doesn’t bother me that much because otherwise I wouldn’t have let her suck my cock.

Perhaps I’m not bothered because I’ve never felt as though I’ve posessed someone (a little too stong a word but you get what I mean). I really like Will and I could be in a long term relationship with him but I don’t feel as though his/my monogamy has anything to do with it at this stage and I know full well that he will sleep with other people and since he reads this blog, he is well aware of what I get up to.

A friend of mine who lives in San Francisco has a saying that he uses a lot – “There are no rules“

He isn’t an anarchist or anything like that. But his outlook on life is that if it works for you, that is OK. I like the phrase.

These guys pictured below (Aden and Jordan) have been together for a few years and are now working in the porn industry as actors. Obviously, they are working with other actors and not just each other. However, in this DNA article they talk about how they are committed as a couple – they also talk about how they involve other people in their private sex life.

There are no rules…..