Could I be in a relationship?

How was everyone’s New Years?

Mine was unbelievably tame for once….. I went to bed before 11pm and was reading a book at the stroke of midnight.  Don’t feel too bad for me though, there were some big days before and after New Years that I have been having some fun and being more social.

I wanted to post and see if any of you guys had anything special for your New Years Resolutions.

I was thinking, maybe this year I should try having a relationship, like a proper one not just casual sex?  What do you guys think?  That could be fun to see where it leads?

Big question, guy or girl?  Can I choose both?

Second big question would be around monogamy…..

This is sounding very complex guys, I’m not sure my lifestyle would ever suit a ‘relationship’, definitely not in the traditional definition.

That is enough serious talk, one thing I would love to do this year is find a pair of these speedos.  I’m going to guess they are making a statement more about the 80’s than Rainbow Gay Pride but I like them.  If anyone knows where to find a pair please let me know.

Rainbow Gay Pride Speedo

I kissed a girl…. and a boy

The barbie (Aussie slang for BBQ/grilling) last night went great.  Being the host I started off being well behaved and it paid off later in the night when I was still able to stand and the last one to bed.

Surprisingly enough, I am up early and about to go for a surf with some of the boys (the married ones who have kids who didn’t party late last night).

My thoughts that Buffy the Neighbour is interested in me is confirmed.  We ended up making out before she headed home (our houses share a wall so it wasn’t far).  She was pretty hammered/drunk though so I won’t read too much into it until I see her again.

I’m still not really sure how to play it if Buffy wants to ‘date’.  Like I said earlier in the week, I would love to be open about my sexuality to a girl if I dated her and I’m sure it would be a healthy thing as well as having the potential to be super super naughty.

I can hear one of the boys just pulled up – Alex is passed out on the couch (we did sneak a kiss late last night so I kissed a girl and a guy at the BBQ) and it is surf time.  Talk to you guys later.

Two Girls, One Guy at the Beach

My neighbor chick

OK so my neighbor chick, I’m going to call her Buffy (I once had another chick neighbor called Buffy – she was hot but a real bitch).

So since I got home from Colorado Buffy has been all over me and super friendly.  She has been a great neighbor and occasionally she’ll join in my BBQ’s or we’ll run into each other out on the town.  Buffy has seen me in speedo a bunch so I’m guessing that she knows I love wearing them and I’m sure she must have seen Alex coming and going so I wonder if she has any inkling about that.

I’ve never really dated a girl that I was 100% open with and I’m wondering if I should maybe try that with Buffy.  There is a surprising number of str8/married guys who read my blogs so if you guys have anything to share I’d love to hear it.

I was planning on having a BBQ last Friday but I couldn’t organize it with people out of town but I will this Friday for sure.

Swimming Couple