What is with that? I definitely prefer str8 activing guys and that is exactly what I am but when it comes to fuck buddies – I’m not picky at all.

I’m wondering if any of you guys have experienced this, “you aren’t gay enough“, kind of attitude.

Through business and even my blog I’ve experienced this since I began in the business. I’ve had bloggers not trade links with me because my blog isn’t ‘strickly gay’. I’ve had a close friend of mine who is a pretty str8 acting guy tell me I probably shouldn’t go to a party in Sydney because it would be too ‘gay’ for me.

It doesn’t bother me but I do find it interesting that for so long anyone with homosexual tendencies (which I obviously have) struggled to be accepted and now some people (a minority for sure) have turned this around.

I’d be interested to hear what you guys think about this or if you’ve ever had similar experiences.

The cold, rainy weather kinda sucks and it will be good to keep in touch with all my kiwi mates. My housemates and I had to move out by next weekend as the house has been sold and one of my housemates is a bit of a pain in the arse.

As to where I’ll live in New Zealand I haven’t completely come to a decision and I’ve been talking to some friends over there trying to decide – I’ll be flying over there Friday week so I better decide. I am excited to get on my snowboard again. Another move but I suppose if you don’t make a decision, someone else will make one for you.

New Zealand is amazingly beautiful and I love hiking as well as snowboarding so you guys can expect some more scenic photos like these below which I took back last winter/spring. If anyone can name where all four pics are taken I’ll give them a years membership to SwimmerBoyz.com.

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the romantic and/or sexual attraction of individuals to others of both genders (socially) or sexes (biologically). Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women and may even shift between states of finding either gender or sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.However, some bisexuals are and remain fairly static in their level of attraction throughout their adult life.

In the mid-1940s, Alfred Kinsey devised the Kinsey scale in an attempt to measure sexual orientation and activity. The 7-point scale has a rating of 0 (“exclusively heterosexual”) to 6 (“exclusively homosexual”). Bisexuals cover most of the scale’s values (1–5), which range between “predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual” (1) to “predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual” (5). In the middle of the scale (3) is “equally heterosexual and homosexual”. Although Kinsey’s methodology has come under criticism, the scale is still widely used in describing the phenomenon of bisexuality.

Although observed in a variety of forms in human societies and in the animal kingdom throughout recorded history, the term bisexuality (like the terms hetero- and homosexuality) was only coined in the 19th century.

I think on that scale I’d be a 4 – how about yourself?  I’m sure I’m going to bring up this post again.